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Have you ever found yourself repeating the same instructions to your child only to be met with silence, eye rolls, or outright defiance? You’re not alone. Many parents struggle with getting through to their kids, and it often feels like no matter what you say, it just doesn’t stick.
But what if the...
Parenting has always been a demanding role but raising children in the 21st century is a different ballgame altogether.
Gone are the days when parenting was guided solely by tradition, communal values, and fixed expectations. Today’s parents are navigating a world that is faster, noisier, more opin...
Dear Pastor, Therapy Is Not a Threat to Your Anointing
There’s a quiet war in the body of Christ today.
A war between the pulpit and the couch.
Between the altar and the clinic.
Between revelation and research.
Some pastors(not all) are teaching against therapy and coaching…
Not because it’s u...
So, if you didn't marry your friend this is for you.
Some married out of pressure.
Some out of fear.
Some married because it was “time,” or because everyone said, “You look good together.”
But deep down, you knew—you weren’t friends.
Now, you share a roof, maybe kids, maybe joint accounts… but ...
There comes a point where the past no longer hurts because of what happened…
…it hurts because of what you keep telling yourself about it.
You’ve become the judge, jury, and executioner in your own soul.
You replay the moment.
You rehearse the fall.
You mourn the opportunity you didn’t take.
A...
We are far too quick with labels these days.
“She’s so rude.”
“He’s arrogant.”
“She didn’t smile at me.”
“He didn’t support me.”
But let me ask you a quiet question today:
Have you ever met someone in their unresourceful state?
Not the version they post online.
Not the vibrant, purpose-drive...
A silent chamber where battles rage. Where tears fall without a sound.
Where faith and failure hold hands.
Some call it a demon.
Some call it a thorn.
Paul called it the “thorn in his flesh” a messenger of weakness that wouldn’t leave, no matter how he prayed. And yet, even in that valley, he fo...
There is a quiet ache that sits in the heart of every community, a pain that is not always spoken but is deeply felt. It’s the ache that comes when those we trust to lead us choose silence over sincerity, pride over humility, and power over presence.
Many leaders find it hard to say, “I was wrong. ...
When something feels off in our families, our instinct is to look for the “problem person.”
Maybe it’s the teenager who’s suddenly become withdrawn and unmotivated or the child who’s having frequent outbursts. Maybe it’s a spouse who seems emotionally unavailable or always angry. We focus on what’s...
When most people think about marriage, they think of love, attraction, and companionship.
They think of laughter, intimacy, shared dreams and sometimes, the picture-perfect wedding. But what many couples don’t realise is that love alone is not enough to sustain a marriage - at least the feelings as...
We often say we’re raising “well-trained” children, but what does that mean?
Is it about how well they sweep the floor, greet elders, or recite memory verses? Or is it about how they make choices, treat others, and carry themselves when no one is watching?
Let’s be honest. In many African homes, ...
