It’s summer already, and let’s be honest, your home might already feel like a mini war zone.

One child is glued to the TV, another is buried in their phone, and no one seems to know where the remote or charger is again. You’ve tried everything; shouting, pleading, even hiding the phone but somehow,...

“Mummy, I’m not a baby!”

You’ve heard it so many times, right?

In fact, if you had $50 for every time your child said it, you could probably go to the bank and cash out enough to start a company.

But the thing is, they’re not lying.

Your child is growing, and as hard as it is to admit it sometim...

Our children can recite multiplication tables. They know the capitals of every country. Some are even solving equations far beyond their age.

But ask them:

‘How are you feeling today?’

‘Why did you hit your classmate instead of speaking up?’

What do you do when you’re overwhelmed?’

And you’ll g...

He preaches to the masses, leads countless revivals, and encourages others to seek God in every area of life but somehow, his home is a place of brokenness. He can speak life to the nations but can’t seem to bring peace to his marriage.

Why are so many men of faith failing at home?

1. No Inner Hea...

There was a time when couples fought to stay together. Now, it seems like they fight just to walk away.

From celebrities to everyday families, divorce is no longer a taboo; it’s becoming the norm but behind every separation is a story no one tells loud enough - the story of broken foundations, unsp...

“Wipe those tears before I give you something to really cry about.”

Sound familiar?

That one sentence sums up how many African children are raised - taught to fear their feelings instead of understanding them but in a world where your child’s ability to manage their emotions can make or break thei...

When Pleasure Becomes Poison: A Story, A Warning, A Way Out

There was once a man whose name struck terror across nations.
He conquered villages, violated women, and buried innocence in dungeons.
But what the world didn’t know until it was too late was this:

He was first conquered by porn.

His name?...

When was the last time your family did something together that felt meaningful; something you all looked forward to, no matter how busy life got?

If you’re like many families today, finding time for special moments can feel almost impossible. Between work, school, chores, and endless distractions, ...

“The Slow Death of Innocence: Porn, Teenagers & The Battle for Africa’s Soul”

There’s a silent war happening in our home
Not with guns or grenades,
But through screens that flicker late at night,
Feeding our children fantasies that poison their reality.

From Cape Town to Kano, from Yaoundé to Addis A...

Between 2013 and 2015, we embarked on a quiet journey across 13 states in Nigeria not as tourists, but as questioners, listeners, and chroniclers of a silent epidemic. What we found shocked even the strongest among us. The age of sexual initiation had dropped to 7.

In Port Harcourt, we sat in a cro...

I want to thank you truly for the overwhelming response to Part One of this series.

But beyond the likes and comments, I want to embrace the brave hearts who reached out quietly, confessing their private wars and desiring a life beyond the claws of porn.

You are not alone. And your courage is the ...

There are wars waged in silence. There are battles fought behind smiling faces and perfect filters.

You see them every day.
At the dinner table. In the classroom. On the pulpit.
But they’re bleeding.

Not from wounds you can see…
But from screens. From pixels. From pleasures that promised escape but d...