Between 2013 and 2015, we embarked on a quiet journey across 13 states in Nigeria not as tourists, but as questioners, listeners, and chroniclers of a silent epidemic. What we found shocked even the strongest among us. The age of sexual initiation had dropped to 7.

In Port Harcourt, we sat in a cro...

I want to thank you truly for the overwhelming response to Part One of this series.

But beyond the likes and comments, I want to embrace the brave hearts who reached out quietly, confessing their private wars and desiring a life beyond the claws of porn.

You are not alone. And your courage is the ...

There are wars waged in silence. There are battles fought behind smiling faces and perfect filters.

You see them every day.
At the dinner table. In the classroom. On the pulpit.
But they’re bleeding.

Not from wounds you can see…
But from screens. From pixels. From pleasures that promised escape but d...

Have you ever found yourself repeating the same instructions to your child only to be met with silence, eye rolls, or outright defiance? You’re not alone. Many parents struggle with getting through to their kids, and it often feels like no matter what you say, it just doesn’t stick.

But what if the...

Parenting has always been a demanding role but raising children in the 21st century is a different ballgame altogether.

Gone are the days when parenting was guided solely by tradition, communal values, and fixed expectations. Today’s parents are navigating a world that is faster, noisier, more opin...

Dear Pastor, Therapy Is Not a Threat to Your Anointing

There’s a quiet war in the body of Christ today.

A war between the pulpit and the couch.

Between the altar and the clinic.

Between revelation and research.

Some pastors(not all) are teaching against therapy and coaching…

Not because it’s u...

So, if you didn't marry your friend this is for you.

Some married out of pressure.

Some out of fear.

Some married because it was “time,” or because everyone said, “You look good together.”

But deep down, you knew—you weren’t friends.

Now, you share a roof, maybe kids, maybe joint accounts… but ...

There comes a point where the past no longer hurts because of what happened…

…it hurts because of what you keep telling yourself about it.

You’ve become the judge, jury, and executioner in your own soul.

You replay the moment.

You rehearse the fall.

You mourn the opportunity you didn’t take.

A...

We are far too quick with labels these days.

“She’s so rude.”

“He’s arrogant.”

“She didn’t smile at me.”

“He didn’t support me.”

But let me ask you a quiet question today:

Have you ever met someone in their unresourceful state?

Not the version they post online.

Not the vibrant, purpose-drive...

A silent chamber where battles rage. Where tears fall without a sound.

Where faith and failure hold hands.

Some call it a demon.

Some call it a thorn.

Paul called it the “thorn in his flesh” a messenger of weakness that wouldn’t leave, no matter how he prayed. And yet, even in that valley, he fo...

There is a quiet ache that sits in the heart of every community, a pain that is not always spoken but is deeply felt. It’s the ache that comes when those we trust to lead us choose silence over sincerity, pride over humility, and power over presence.

Many leaders find it hard to say, “I was wrong. ...

When something feels off in our families, our instinct is to look for the “problem person.”

Maybe it’s the teenager who’s suddenly become withdrawn and unmotivated or the child who’s having frequent outbursts. Maybe it’s a spouse who seems emotionally unavailable or always angry. We focus on what’s...