Love language analysis
Discover how you and your partner express and receive love best.
Room 01 — Marriage & Relationships
Check the state of your marriage.
OYELA is the Family House Africa marital health checkup — a three-step process for reigniting the spark in your marriage. Think of it as a health check for your relationship: clear insight into where you are, and a guided plan for where you want to be.
In marriages, it's not always the obvious problems that lead to trouble. It's often the small, everyday things we overlook — the unspoken apologies, the kisses that fade away, the meals shared in silence, the money spent without discussion, and the intimacy that has taken a back seat. These seemingly minor issues can lay the groundwork for much bigger challenges.
Different spending habits create financial stress. Communication becomes less open than it used to be. In the bedroom, it gets harder to express desires or understand each other's needs. Subtle as they are, these issues grow over time — which is why regular check-ins matter. OYELA is designed to surface them early, so your marriage stays strong, resilient and fulfilling in every area, including intimacy.
What you get with OYELA.
Cultural compatibility & belief assessment
Explore your shared values for a stronger connection.
Personality evaluation
Understand each other's traits and preferences.
In-depth marital health checkup
A comprehensive assessment of the current state of your relationship.
One-hour personalised counselling session
Expert guidance tailored to your results — a debriefing with a professional.
The full OYELA marital checkup, including your debriefing session.
Sign me up ↗Imagine what it will feel like to…
- Gain a comprehensive understanding of your marital dynamics.
- Receive personalised insights that help you strengthen the bond with your partner.
- Wake up to a renewed sense of intimacy and connection in your marriage.
- Navigate challenges confidently, leaving self-doubt behind and building a resilient relationship.
- Have clarity about the state of your marriage, so every next step is focused and intentional.
- Break free from the daily grind of relationship stress — a marriage that flourishes, not just survives.
The checkup is designed for you if…
You're considering an assessment
- You suspect something is wrong in your relationship.
- You've never checked the health of your marriage.
You're navigating challenges
- You're trying to decide whether to stay together.
- You're currently separated.
- You can't stop fighting.
You want deeper understanding
- You want to understand each other and communicate at intimate levels.
- Parenting has drained the romance from your relationship.
You're recovering and rebuilding
- You're recovering from an affair.
- You're divorced but want to see if reconciliation is possible.
In their words
Couples who checked in.
"I've never liked conflict, so every time there was something in my marriage I was dissatisfied with, I just let it slide. I didn't realise it was all accumulating within. I came across the marital health check and paid for me and my husband. The results made it obvious we were living in two realities — he thought we had the best marriage; I was bitter and very close to breaking point. The debriefing session helped us understand our differences and pointed us in the right direction. We took the test a year later and we're on the same wavelength — happy, connected and blissful."
Mrs Damilola
"My wife and I were in a good place, but I decided to give this a try — and I'm glad I did. I found out it was all luck and no intentionality. The assessment showed me what was working in my marriage and why. I've spent the last year adding intentionality to what we already had, and it's been blissful."
Mr O. Adekunle
"My parents were married for 24 years — years spent as flatmates, not a couple. I promised myself I'd do better. Five years into my marriage, it almost felt like déjà vu. Taking this assessment helped me find the root cause of our issues, and that awareness helped us on our journey to being friends and true partners."
Abimbola A.
"This tool helped us understand our relationship better. It accurately pointed out the reasons behind some of our issues and gave us practical solutions to work on together. It played a crucial role in saving our marriage. It's definitely worth the cost."
Christy O.
Questions couples ask.
Is this only for troubled marriages?
No. Reviewing the condition of your marriage doesn't mean something is wrong — it helps your marriage stay on course. OYELA is designed for every couple seeking growth, whether you want to strengthen your bond, prevent potential issues or enhance an already healthy marriage.
Can't we address issues without a checkup?
Addressing issues directly is essential, but the checkup is a proactive, comprehensive measure. It helps you identify concerns early, before they escalate — a preventative health check for your marriage.
Is the assessment confidential?
Yes. Your privacy is a top priority, and all information shared during the assessment is kept confidential.
What happens after we receive our results?
Your assessment is analysed and you receive your results with recommendations and insights. You're then assigned to a professional for a debriefing session, and you can choose to continue with further counselling if you'd like.
How accurate is the assessment?
Very — about 98% of the time. For the best results, be open and honest with your answers; your true thoughts and feelings make the insights accurate.
Must I take the assessment with my spouse?
We recommend taking it together. If your partner isn't on board, you can still take it on your own and implement the insights — positive change often starts with one person.
Invest in your marriage